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This blog is a birds eyeview of my life. Varying from trekking adventures to rocking satsangs, from coffee shops to college canteens, Fidgetting with fun and enthusiasm... learning and spreading the art of breadth and the joy in smiling....... This is simply an UNWINDING of a few thoughts that are stuck in my Mind....!!!

Life's always a full circle, what goes around has to come around, so why stop to enjoy the pain and suffering when we can drool in the joy and happiness....!!!!

A Complete 360 Degree...!!!

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Monday, April 5, 2010

Strangers - Acquaintances - Friends :-)

How many of us make friends, 
or at least call all the people we meet as friends. 

Not realising that most of them on the so called list are only mere ACQUAINTANCES. 

People whom you meet on a regular basis, but share nothing more than just a mere “HELLO” 

Its just the fear to talk more, the fear of rejection or a very strange negative feeling that holds us back all the time. We think we are not that good enough without even realizing our own potential. In fact we may like a lot of people but we refrain ourselves from meeting/ talking with them. The so called STUDS as boys call themselves, refrain from talking to a very SWEET GIRL and vice versa. 

They can be your so called friends, acquaintances or strangers.

It's always what we choose it to be. We leave so much on destiny not realizing that we always have a choice of free will. Destiny is to make you aware of a situation and its your free will that helps you choose every tiny little minute feature in your life.

The Million Dollar Question....??? 

How can we create more ACQUAINTANCES and in the process FRIENDS....???

All that we have to do is simply pass a very cute smile. This is a universal language, any person, anywhere in the world, any nationality what so ever, all needs to do is simply SMILE, this leaves the other with no option but to smile back. If he or she does not smile the first time, the will surely smile back the next time. But the reaction of the other person must never take away the smile from your face.

We feel people come and people go, it for us to decide who stays and who doesn’t in our lives. This attitude has to be changed, we can only live our lives to the fullest and in return we have such aura on us that we would normally attract more people to be in our company. This is simply the power of a smile.
I took it upon myself to try this out, all i did was Smile everywhere i go, smile at the cook, the watchman, the gate keeper, the lab assistant, the teacher, the rickshaw wala, the auto wala, the magi wala n each and every person i met. They certainly might have felt strange for the first time, but as this practice continued they got accustomed to it and in fact now have elevated from strangers to acquaintances to FRIENDS. All one has to do is simply SMILE.

It bridges gaps of a million light years. No words can help fill this gap but the very smile on one’s face can help many a heart beat much longer.

It’s one simple emotion that beats every other reaction in any given situation in life.

I began this extra ordinary task of creating more and more ACQUAINTANCES and then making them my FRIENDS.

Its very very cost effective to make Girl Friends, Boy Friends, and to be able to enjoy certain privileges, like For Ex – In my college canteen in case i don’t have money i can still have a lavish meal, in case i don’t have a vehicle to get back home i am still damn sure that i’d get a drop home, I never have money and i am damn sure that i would never be left hungry, loads of examples that would go on and on. All i want you all is to experience this feeling of complete BELONGINGNESS in this world. 

This activity of mine has given me the feeling of never being alone ever in LIFE. Come what may, i know that help will flow in from all corners of the world.

This is exactly the same journey that each and every individual must follow.
Just give in to your feelings and do every thing that your HEART tells you....

Just Do This and the entire world around you will be filled with Smile and laughter.

Pic from Google Images

Meet Strangers – Smile – Talk

Make them ACQUAINTANCES – Smile – Talk

They are then FRIENDS for LIFE


  1. pretty cool for a beginner..keep up the gud work. :)

  2. very well written..... keep up da gud wrk

  3. "kisi ki muskurahton pe ho nisaar, kisi ka dard mil sake toh le udhaar, kisi ke vaaste ho tere dil mein pyar, jeena isi ka naam hai"

    Oye how can one escape from your colagate smile without making friends with you. Very few ppl have such a millon dollar smile these days.

  4. you are right Mrs Sharon all are saying just HELLO.. not share even single thing..very true ...keep it up...


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